By: Isis Nicole
There comes a time in everyone’s life when they’ll face jealously, backstabbing, and and just low down dirty hate..But what few girls will ever come to accept are those three horrendous truths from the likes of their closest friends also known as the FREMENY.
Frenemies can be the worst people you’ve ever encountered, if and only if, you do not know how to cooperate and or end all things dealing with their senselessness. They are in every way pointless relationships and only want to keep you around for sabotage or personal pleasure of dislike.
What’s even more interesting is that the ones who are the closest to you tend to hate the most. The most unappealing aspect of having a friend who also happens to be an enemy is that you may not realize that in the end, they don’t have your best interest at heart.
How to spot one? Well for one, “frenemies” do not typically pop up like an unnoticed stain on your new outfit, although the situation may indeed feel that way. They are much more clever. Unfortunately, they blossom over time; therefore, there’s a great possibility that they are very aware of your secrets and weaknesses. What was once a health girl to girl powwow turns into a biter broken relationship.
How to deal? You can call them out, facing the issue head on. An alternative is for you to get even, but once you’re past a certain age, that can be thought of as immature. Plus, you would be wasting your precious time and energy. Ultimately, it’s up to you.